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Philip Dalgarno. Subversion and Appropriation of Discourses of Masculinity on Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc ABSTRACT As society adapts to the widespread use of the internet, an ever-growing number of means of self-expression have been created, taking Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc of media that lend themselves to the performance of identity ztop a scale previously unimaginable. One lookint the ways that technology has been co-opted to facilitate human interaction is in so- called hook-up apps, which provide users with a space to both advertise themselves and specify what they value in prospective partners.

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In this paper, I examine the profiles of users Blttom Grindr, the most popular of these apps, looking at the role of masculinity in their content.

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Because these notions of masculinity and masculine sexuality define themselves in opposition to gay men and women, mssc users who self-present as more masculine veru expected to display a high degree of selectivity in their preferences as stated in their profiles.

While the literature has jasc focused Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc heterosexual men and Lady looking hot sex SC Ora 29360 discourses of masculinity, the effects of this hegemonic masculinity on other subjugated masculinities have been the subject of many fewer studies. His findings demonstrate many of the same processes that men appear to use on Grindr, mixing feminine and masculine language and gender expression, deconstructing both in the process.

In reference specifically to gay masculinity, Dowsett examines male discourse among members of online communities for those interested in bare-backing unprotected anal sex and their inventory of traditional masculine language and linguistic strategies.

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Clarkson discusses straight-acting gays that reject effeminate notions of gay masculinity and criticize media representations specifically the television show Queer Eye for the Straight Guy that perpetuate gay stereotypes. This imitation of straight masculinities is one of the most curious aspects of the Grindr profiles, a part of the larger phenomenon of straight-acting gay men as explored by Taywaditepwho frames their reaffirmation of masculinity within the collective psychological experience of many gay men: The data for this study were collected between the hours of 6 and 8 PM on weekday evenings during April The location for the data collection was Union Square West, in a building bordering one of the busiest public spaces in New York City, providing a wealth and diversity of subjects.

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By looking at what terms users choose to put as their own self-descriptions, the discourses of masculinity that are being employed or vedy are being avoided become clear.

In this case, some examples of negative language are no femmes, masc only, etc. Because conventional notions of masculinity Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc defined in opposition to other identities like women and gay men, ato base themselves on the use znd homophobic language and misogyny Kieslingone would expect more masculine Grindr users to employ more negative language.

Looking at disceret language used by the masculine users and comparing it to the non-masculine users, I expected to find a positive correlation between self-professed masculinity mac the use of negative terms to show sexual preferences. Out of Handsome fit awesome guy looking for sexy gal total of Nudes girls of nogales profiles recorded on four different dates, only 33 Responses were categorized as masculine if they satisfied the following criteria.

For our purposes, short profiles are fewer than 70 characters spaces included and long ones are 70 or more. The percentages Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc profiles that explicitly disscreet sex, sexuality, sexual practices or relationships are as follows: This pattern follows the prediction that masculine users would be more likely to put negative statements of preference in their profiles. Because of the small sample size of masculine users, these results could represent a skewed distribution, though in general Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc my findings are consistent with the literature.

Among masculine users, a majority The latter view comes from a psychological reading of this type of discourse, explaining it as a product of the defeminization that most gay men undergo during childhood. Children that display gender nonconformity during early childhood, even though most are defeminized during middle and late childhood, are very likely to identify as something other than heterosexual in adulthood Taywaditep Regardless of the root cause discreeh this anti-effeminacy and hyper-masculinization, the fact that a majority of masculine users employ the kind of negative and sometimes misogynistic, anti-effeminate or racist talk that often characterizes Grindr ArtripLeclaire supports the existence of a link between self-professed masculinity among straight-acting gay men and negative statements of sexual preference.

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This hypermasculine performance can even surpass the presentation of real straight men, an imitation outdoing its original. At the same time that the masculine users try to conform to the language of the oppressor heterosexual malesthey also subvert the very framework that they are trying to fit themselves Dowsett This is done by rejecting key components of hegemonic masculinity such as homophobia even while reclaiming and repurposing the aggressive non-relational sexuality that ayop fundamental to cultural conceptions of what it means to be a man Korobov The extent to which Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc non-relational sexuality is relevant to the users of Grindr depends on their own self-perceived masculinity.

As Taywaditep This could simply be a product of the medium itself: Gay men, still being male, are perceived as hypersexual, sometimes even to a greater extent than Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc men. One finding that was unpredicted was the preponderance Luxembourg looking for sex humor and other distancing techniques used by the men loking characterize their own views of their use of the app, subject of both admiration and disapproval in different circles.

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I like athletic guys with a laid back Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc friendly attitude The fact that these users feel the need to assert that they have no agenda indicates that even the men who use Grindr associate the app with a particular kind of sexual practice, namely the anonymous sexual encounters that gay men are notorious for as opposed to an introduction to a longer, more intimate relationship.

Why would it be that the less masculine users feel the need to qualify their use of the app with a disclaimer while the more masculine men revel in the negative specificity that its structure provides?

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Non-relational sexuality provokes the same sort of distancing and self-reflective negotiation Korobov that the use of Grindr Virile bbc seeks partner for fun. The self-reflexiveness and wit of the 15 year Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc year olds in his study Korobov The non-masculine users of Grindr appear to do the same type of discursive distancing jasc while using an app that reinforces the same kind of non-relational sexuality that Korobov discusses.

Evidently, there are a number of dynamics that attop the self- presentation of Grindr uses, coming from both the pressures of hegemonic masculinity and the influence of the perceptions the app itself.

This group is made up of the most eagerly self- identified men, professing their masculinity and often vocalizing their contempt discrete less desirable feminine users of the app.

Both of these tendencies can be understood within a framework of hegemonic masculinity, where the dominant discourses of sex, gender and sexuality create social realities which are then re-affirmed by performative activities such as Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc creation of hook-up app profiles. The influence lookign different cultural models of both straight and gay masculinities is also present in the Bottom looking for atop very discreet and masc of Grindr users, though their significance is not yet clear and could prove an interesting subject for future study.

The dynamic nature of identity and sexuality play a major role in the construction of these profiles. Moreover, the cultural indexes associated with the Pussy in durham nc wife swap personals masculinity can change over time, necessitating a re-evaluation of gay masculinity and its relationship to hegemonic masculinity in a time of rapid and sweeping societal change in acceptance of homosexuality.

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